Not focus? absolutely damn right!

i was talking with iman a few days a go
we only chatted less than an hour
but actually my perception about him changed ever since
he asked me many things
and then he said "you're not focus lia!"
and bang!!! i found my biggest problem this lately...

not focus?
geez, he was damn right!

it sounds ridiculous
a guy who doesn't know me that well (or a stranger?)
can helped me found what i've been looking for
i'm impressed!